If you ever want to know the true meaning of Christmas, celebrate the holiday with a toddler in the house. I had the best Christmas ever this year and it wasn’t the gifts, or the decorations, or the food that made it so special, it was my child. Watching her, experiencing the holiday through her eyes was pure joy.
Our (Christmas) holiday celebrations started on Saturday morning with our friends who have become family and their daughter. The girls are a little less than six months apart in age and love each other so much, it’s amazing. N and I made a great breakfast while the girls (and the husbands) played together and then we exchanged gifts. It was low-key and really nice, which is just the way I like it. That evening, we headed over to my aunt’s house for a family celebration.
We had originally planned to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas day with my dad. He lives about two hours south of us in a small Kansas town which is always a nice place to be (I love the more relaxed atmosphere small towns offer, it’s a nice change from the city). They’ve been so busy lately that they really just wanted to unwind over the holiday, go out for Chinese food, and maybe catch a movie so we stayed at home. At first, I’ll admit, I was a little disappointed at the prospect of spending a holiday without him but it was actually really nice not to have to worry about traveling or anything.
Christmas Eve was really nice. We had dinner, cleaned up a little, and then made cookies for Santa Claus. C decorated a letter for him while the husband and I each wrote him a letter. I figured I’d share:
I hope you like the cookies. I also left a beer just in case you are tired of milk, or lactose intolerant. I won’t tell Mrs. Claus. C has been very good this year so if you want to leave her something nice, that would be great.
PS: Is your sled a time machine? That would be cool and would make sense.
I know you’re very busy and that you work so hard to bring joy and happiness to so many children, mommies, and daddies throughout the world. I just wanted to say “thank you” for the magic you bring to others. This Christmas, I would like a more peaceful, more understanding, more loving world to live in. I know this seems impossible nowadays but I haven’t given up hope. I hope you enjoy these cookies that were baked specially for you.
Merry Christmas Santa!
We were so lucky that Santa took time to reply to us…take a look:
Thank you very much for the cookies and milk you left for me to enjoy, they were really delicious! I packaged up the leftovers for you to enjoy with mommy and daddy this week. I know how much you love cookies. I peeked in to see you peacefully sleeping in your bed just now…my how you have grown this past year! I am so proud of how smart, sweet, and loving you are. I hope that you enjoy the shopping cart and register that I left for you this year. I know that you help mommy do the grocery shopping for your family and I hope this toy is something you will enjoy. I am looking forward to seeing how much you grow and change in the coming year. Hopefully next Christmas you will not be afraid to come talk to me when you see me in public. Always remember to be the sweet, amazing child that you are. Be sure to listen to mommy and daddy as they try to help you learn and discover new things. I know that being a toddler can be frustrating. Mommy and daddy love you very much and they will always be there for you. Have a very Merry Christmas!
Dear Mommy and Daddy,
Thanks for the cookies, milk, and beer. I always appreciate when people think to do something special. To answer your question, Daddy, my sleigh is powered by the magic of the spirit of Christmas. That, in conjunction with he help I get from parents all over the globe make it possible for me to deliver the gifts as I do but if you prefer to believe that a time machine helps me, I’m okay with that. Mommy, thanks for the note. I, too, believe a more peaceful world is possible if we keep working towards it. C is a beautiful, sweet, smart little girl and I enjoyed peeking in on her tonight. I also peeked in on the two of you…my goodness, Daddy, do you not own pajamas? What if there was a fire? Next year- pants and a t-shirt to bed on Christmas, okay? Enjoy Christmas with your little family.
PS: I heard the “fat man who wears a suit and breaks into houses” comment. That’s a good way to end up on the naughty list. Remember…I see all.
Christmas day was comfortable and relaxing. I’ve never understood the stress that so many people put themselves under in order to make a massive meal for the holiday and so we went the non-traditional route (similar to Thanksgiving). I prepared a big breakfast in the morning, we had turkey dogs in a blanket for lunch and I made crock pot chili for dinner. The focus was very much on family and spending quality time together. Watching C open her gifts and check out her new gadgets was the highlight of my day.
Now that the holidays are over, I’m looking forward to getting back into working on some home organization (which I’ll be talking about in the near future) and back to blogging on a regular basis.
How did you spend your holiday?